You’re Never Too Old to Sleep in Cartoon Pajamas

Before you read any further, I want you to stop and think for a moment, when you were a child, who was your favorite cartoon character? It can even be right now. Who is your favorite cartoon character at this very moment? I personally have several. As a child, my favorite cartoon characters were the Ghostbusters as seen in ‘The Real Ghostbusters’. I would like to add that it is un-American to not love the Ghostbusters. Now, my favorites, that’s right, favorites, are Rock Lee from ‘Naruto’, Piccolo from ‘Dragonball Z’, and Zuko from ‘Avatar: The Last Airbender’. Thinking about any of the characters I just listed, I had to actively stop myself from smiling. I’d be willing to bet that you did the same when I told you to think about your favorite cartoon character.

When you’re a child, the sky seems to be the limit. We have never-ending dreams, dreams so raw and pure that they can’t even truly be called ambitions, and we dream them freely. At that moment in our lives, magic is real, and there’s nothing that can’t come true. Cartoons give us a great outlet for that. It’s a peak into make-believe worlds of fantasy and magic, heroism and valor, as well as talking anthropomorphized sponges. 

As we get older, we tend to let life get the better of us. Life has knocked us down, taught us we have limits. It showed us we have boundaries, and we may even have a couple of scars to prove it. It can be hard not to buckle underneath life. We cope with its stresses by becoming what we think is the best version of ourselves. That usually means being straight-laced, responsible, and doing our duty to ourselves and our family. That’s all well and good except for one issue, and it’s a big issue. That issue is, we’re lying to ourselves. We fill our minds with these beliefs and self-imposed limitations because we can’t imagine that we can do better. We lose our ability to dream. We tell ourselves that we’re too old, too fat, too dumb, that that opportunity past us by.

It’s rough to think about, but in that regard, that’s where we need to let ourselves be a kid again and reconnect with our inner child. That child growing up in some ways understood more about the world than you probably do now. If you can imagine the possibility, with that same hard work and drive that you've used in other areas in life, you can make that possibility a reality. 

Cartoons can be a great outlet for that. They can teach us simple yet valuable lessons that we've simply forgotten along the way, and that maybe, just maybe, there’s real magic in the world after all. 

So stop reading, order some pajamas sporting your favorite cartoon character, and dream of the possibilities your life has in store for you.

What Kind of Material Should You Get Your Pajamas In?

Sleepwear can be remarkably important. After all, that's what you’ll be spending (hopefully) six-eight hours in. Comfort is huge and that’s going to be a big factor, but there are so many materials that pajamas can come in. There really is no right answer in regard to what’s best because it all comes down to preference. What I can help you with here though, is giving some insight into the different types these can come in.

Cotton: This is easily the most common kind you’ll find. There’s good reason for that though. Cotton pajamas are warm, comfortable, and soft. It’ll absorb sweat and is pretty durable. It's also machine washable which's always a plus.

Wool: Wool actually comes from cotton, and shares many of the good qualities of cotton. Wool is also incredibly warm making it perfect for cold winter nights.

Silk: This is a bit fancier than some of the other options and it comes from a worm, BUT silk is one of the softest, most breathable fabrics you can find. It’s also incredibly light. There are some downsides though. It can really only be machine-washed on cold, and it shouldn’t be machine-dried at all. Sweat can also cause it to weaken a bit, and ironing can make it fade. It’s up to you though as to whether or not the pros outweigh the cons.

Flannel: Another perfect winter fabric. Flannel is incredibly warm yet breathable, and is remarkably durable. Winter can be rough, and here in Massachusetts it’s been particularly bad, so maybe some flannel pajamas aren’t a bad idea.

Cashmere: Cashmere is quite fancy, and makes for some very comfortable pajamas. Very soft and breathable, and it’s water resistant so you can sweat all you want without fear of any sort of damage to the material. There is a downside to cashmere though and that is that it shouldn’t be machine-washed.

That’s a rundown of all of the different types of material you can find your sleepwear in, or at least all that I can think of. Hopefully this is all helpful for you as you decide which pajamas to go for when you do your shopping at Jumpin Jammerz.

Wearing Pajamas in Public—A New Fad

There used to be an age, where wearing your pajamas in public meant you were either a teenager, or a stoner. I’m sure if we were to draw a Venn Diagram of the two demographics, there’d be a pretty large overlap, though, so it’s irrelevant. That’s no longer the case. It's now perfectly acceptable to wear your pajamas out and about proudly. This new fad could be caused by a multitude of reasons.

Firstly, you may actually be a teenager or a stoner, in which case, just do you and let your freak flag fly. Studies show that adolescence extends to about the age of thirty now so you have some wiggle room.

Secondly, you find yourself a forty-something mother of two, and you’re in the infant section at Target wearing Looney Toons pajamas, so what gives? Well, as it turns out, pajamas are incredibly comfortable now, and there are many varieties these days. You don’t need to be stuck with the plaid pajamas your grandfather wore, now they can have Batman and such on them, and I think we all agree that Batman pajamas at any age are pretty awesome.

The reality is that life is hectic. Life seems like it’s more fast-paced than ever before. We have new challenges to face, and new problems to overcome. Wearing pajamas as everyday fashion is incredibly convenient. Not only are they just really comfortable pieces of clothing, but they’re easy to slip on, and just go. Plus, I've always liked the look, far more than wearing regular sweat pants. There’s a big difference between the two. You wear your pajamas in public and people may just think that you’re laid back, wear regular sweats out in public and people will think that you’ve officially given up.

Some may say that it’s a representation of the downward spiral in fashion. I personally think that’s dumb. It’s entirely subjective, and frankly, if that’s what the majority are wearing, then that’s the new fashion, and who’s to say whether it’s a move forward, back, or simply lateral? I think at the end of the day, wearing your pajamas in public because you had to take that quick trip to the grocery store to buy milk is more simply a sign of the times. Life’s stressful, convenience helps make life less stressful. It’s as simple as that.

Helpful "Jumpin" Tips for Buying Pajamas

There can be a good amount of decision making that goes into buying onesie pajamas here at Jumpin Jammerz. The best ones are loose-fitting and comfortable for your sleeping hours. In this write-up, I want to give you some tips to take into consideration before you buy new ones.

Firstly, what are you looking to use them for? If you’re just looking to sleep in your new pajamas, then it may not matter too much, but the material can be really important if you intend on wearing them more often. Some materials like cashmere are a bit more fragile and that can be an issue. Really think about what you’re looking to do with them, and then decide on material from there.

Secondly, think about comfort. The only reason why I didn't put this first, is simply because if your pajamas are going to rip and get ruined doing what you’re doing, then it doesn't matter how comfortable you are. If you’re looking to use them purely as sleepwear though, your comfort is paramount. If you’re uncomfortable, then you can kiss sleep goodbye. No good sleep, then no good days. With that logic, it’s easy to see how buying the right pajamas can be one of the most important purchases you make. Most people won’t be seeing what you are sleeping in, so go for function over appearance.

Finally, who're these for? If you’re buying pajamas for yourself, then factors like design are unimportant. If they’re for your children for example, then they’re going to care about what’s on them. Obviously, I doubt anyone reading this will be expecting their sons to be willing to wear ‘Hello Kitty’ pajamas, but really think about what the person you’re buying them for really likes. Today you can get pajamas in just about any design. 

Hopefully these tips were helpful to you in helping you pick out your pajamas. Personally, while I’m sure much of what was said wasn't terribly new, sometimes it helps to have your thoughts laid out in black and white. It can be surprisingly easy to overlook something otherwise.

Some Thoughts on How to Throw a Great Adult Pajama Party

Pajama parties are typically thought of as being for college and high school students, and even kids, but I am writing to you today to tell you that even as adults you can throw great pajama parties. Even when you’re all grown-up, pajama parties can be a great way to reconnect with friends and unwind in a relaxed and casual setting. We all live fast-paced and busy lives. Sometimes it can be just what everyone needs in order to unwind.

Setting-wise, if you want to truly keep things relaxed and casual, as well as inexpensive, nothing beats your own home. This can also serve as a good throwback to those college and high school days when that type of thing was a bit more common. It could also be fun if you’re down to spend a bit more money to go to a hotel or even a grown-up arcade/bar and bring the party there. This probably isn't the sort of event you’d want to overly-concern yourself with in regards to decorating. Keep things mellow and casual.

For food, remember that we’re shooting for nostalgia, so harkening back to those days of your youth with simple food like pizza and fries. A pajama party isn’t something to worry about getting fancy for. With drinks, keep it simple: for non-alcoholic, go with sodas and for alcoholic, stick with beer and colorful mixed drinks.

The next big question is what to do? This would be a great opportunity to either rent a karaoke machine, or really let loose with a sing-along video game. There of course also plenty of regular video games and of course movies for background noise during the party. It’s one of those things where you really want to think about, what would I have wanted to do in my late teens?

I’m sure there are some that would roll their eyes at the thought of being an adult and hosting or going to a bachelor party. Just remember though, sometimes it’s important to forget yourself, your job, your family, your debts, and just have fun. That is something that I fear we tend to lose as we get older. As time goes by, it becomes far more difficult to lose yourself in just being silly for a night. The older you get though, the more important those nights can be. You never want to lose your ability to simply let go, and have a good time, and why not in your pajamas?

Pajamas: A Brief History

Pajamas, deriving from the word pyjama, which became integrated into the English language in the year 1800 via Hindustani (though the actual term pajama is Persian meaning ‘leg garment’), and became used worldwide through British occupation of India and their worldwide influence.

Pajamas had been introduced to the English as early as the seventeenth century as ‘lounging attire’, and were commonly used as day-wear in India. They didn't really catch on as a fashion though in the Western world in the Victorian Era until around 1870, and even then, only as sleepwear for men. In the Middle East and India, pajamas had been worn by both classes, but had only been in fashion for men in the British Empire. Over time, this gradually changed, and they evolved into not just being suitable for men and women, but as a general fashion.

Celebrities were a large part of the reason for why it became popular to wear pajamas in public. Very big names like Ryan Gosling and Rihanna could be spotted at major events sporting sleepwear. Thanks to the internet and the tabloids, this naturally got noted by everyone and subsequently, and unsurprisingly, imitated by the masses. It ended up becoming very popular to wear sleepwear in public but as a result, took criticism from some groups, including politicians.

In 2012, a commissioner in Louisiana by the name of Michael Williams actually proposed an ordinance to ban students from wearing pajamas in public schools. He viewed it, and perhaps rightfully so, as a slippery slope in regard to our moral fabric where today it may be loose-fitting pajamas, but tomorrow it could be underwear. His logic was if it didn't stop with pajamas, then when would it? 

Many schools nowadays don’t allow students to wear pajamas and put official bans in place within the school dress code. This is largely due to the fact that many pajamas can be very loose fitting, and as a result, it can be easy to have wardrobe malfunctions with them. That’s part of the reason why it’s so important to make sure you are well contained in whatever pajamas you choose to wear in public. Some wardrobe malfunctions after all, can be a felony.

Comic Book Geeks vs. Comic Book Nerds

‘Geek’ and ‘Nerd’ are often used synonymously, especially when referencing such a wonderful group as comic book fans. Though now, simply liking comic books, or at least characters in comic books, isn't enough to quantify someone as either because after all, have you actually met someone who didn't like Guardians of the Galaxy, The Avengers, or The Dark Knight? Probably not, and if they don’t genuinely like any of those, I can only assume it’s due to some undiagnosed personality disorder because each of those movies is magic. Though geek and nerd may seem interchangeable at least on the surface, there are differences between the two.

Outwardly, both groups will seem similar. Once they start talking, the differences start to show. Geeks overall, tend to be the more social of the two. They’ll both make really obscure references to very obscure topics, but the geek will generally have more interest in the actual socializing than the nerd will. They are both generally brilliant, and will obsess over topics they’re passionate about (like comics, yay!), but the geek will be more willing to break away from the obsession than the nerd. Example: you could talk to a comic book geek about how you got underpaid at work, and made a fool out of yourself in front of a girl you went on a date with, and the geek may make a reference to how Peter Parker ran into the same problem in ‘Amazing Spider-Man’ several issues back. If you tell the same story to the comic book nerd, though he may be just as interested in Peter Parker’s adventures, he isn't nearly as interested in the conversation at hand and will probably be fairly dismissive, or shy away completely. 

So really, one of the biggest differences, though they have almost identical interests and obsessions,  is the comic book nerd is genuinely introverted and more interested in solitude than being with others, and the comic book geek is simply made unique by his passions.

Another Hail Mary play to decipher whether or not that guy you see hanging around Newbury Comics in the mall is a geek or a nerd, look at who he dates. A geek can and will fall for anybody. Nerds on the other hand, will generally only fall for other nerds. Maybe it’s because they need to share their passions with a partner, or maybe it’s just survival instinct. We may never know, but whether geek or nerd, you’ll probably call him or her boss one day.

Keys to Wearing Pajamas Outdoors

At times we can be a culture that’s obsessed with how we look, and in a way that’s a good thing. Sure, the inside's what counts and that’s as it should be, but let’s not forget that it's the outside that typically opens the door. Keeping that in mind, how you look also says a lot in how you view yourself. If you look too done up, or if you look disheveled, that can project that you don’t really care about you, and if you don’t care about you, then why should anyone else? All of that being said, sometimes people want comfort and don’t want to go crazy getting ready. I myself am one of those people. Frequently. 

So when you decide to rock your pajamas outside you’re going to want to do so in a way that doesn't make people think you’re a slob or depressed. This can be a thin line to walk so pay attention.

Keep it simple. It’s probably not the best idea to wear overly intricate designs or garishly bright colors, isn't typically the best choice. In regards to what to wear on top, the impulse will be whether you are a guy or girl to wear a hoodie, but no, bad move. We've all seen people in the hoodie and PJ’s and it makes you look like a bum. Again you want to be able to be comfortable, without giving a poor impression of yourself. How you present yourself on the outside all-too-often can give a good glimpse into how you feel on the inside. You don’t want people to think that you don’t care. If someone can tell you have a poor self-image, it may reflect how they act toward you. Again, if you don’t care about you, why should anyone else? So skip the hoodie. Instead, wear something that will shape you more as opposed to just going bulky and shapeless with that hoodie.

Lastly, and this should go without saying but just to be on the safe side I’m going to say it anyway: make sure you’re contained. Part of what make pajamas great and comfortable is how loose-fitting and baggy they are, that also creates a far greater chance of a wardrobe malfunction. To save yourself embarrassment and felony indecent exposure charges, take steps to make sure that won't happen to you.

How to Throw an Awesome Adult Superhero Pajama Party

Let’s start by being realistic: being a grown-up is hard, and it’s stressful, and sometimes you just need to let your inner child run rampant and let loose. A good way to do that is to throw on your favorite superhero pajamas and let loose. As someone who has a shameful amount of those, I think it can be a fun way to unwind and release some of that stress.

Firstly, the basics for throwing any kind of a sleepover, because let’s face it, that’s what this is, is to have not only a good idea of who’s coming, and making sure you have the space for them, but also things like whether or not it’s coed or same-sex. Though I think as adults having a boy-girl party wouldn't be too taboo but hey, to each his/her own.

Secondly, you want to make sure there is a place that’s quiet for whoever wants to go fall asleep first. Not everyone falls asleep at the same time, so make sure there’s a spot where they can drift off. Let’s also remember the tried and true rule: don’t fall asleep with your shoes still on or you’re just inviting people to mess with you while you’re sleeping. Rules are rules.

Thirdly, decide whether or not you’re planning on serving food and especially breakfast. You don’t want everyone waking up and being upset because they were expecting you to feed them and you had other plans.

Lastly, alcohol. It usually goes without saying that any kind of adult party is going to have copious amounts of alcohol, so make sure you have plenty. Though to keep it classy and fair, you should make sure you have at least one non-alcoholic drink in the house, but I would hope any self-respecting adult would, even accidentally, have some kind of beverage in there house that doesn’t have alcohol in it. If not, then you should probably stop reading this and get help of the professional variety.

So you've got your basics down, awesome. You've also decided to go with a superhero theme, and I know I don’t know you, but that makes you awesome in my book. How do we continue to run with it? You may just want to draw the line at the superhero pajamas and that’d be fine, but if you want to take it further you have options.

With the boom in popularity of superhero movies, Marvel and DC counterparts to classic board games have been popping up for years. Guess Who often gets turned into a drinking game, so why not do that with Marvel Guess Who?

There are also great video games based on the worlds of comic books and let’s not forget the movies themselves. Whether you want a movie to have playing in the background, or a game or activity to take the spotlight, there’s plenty of opportunity as it seems like nowadays you can get a superhero version of everything. To illustrate that, I own a pair of Captain America socks. Captain. America. Socks. They’re fantastic.

Pajamas to Spice up Any Relationship

We've all been there. You are in this great new relationship. Everything's new, it’s exciting, it’s fun, it’s everything we ever wanted, and then it happens: it stops being new, exciting, fun, and suddenly we maybe wanted something or someone else. That’s the harsh reality, if you let things go just as they are, the bloom falls from the rose. It's the Second Law of Thermodynamics in action, if left unchecked, the relationship heads toward a state of entropy. You shouldn't be singing the funeral hymns for your relationship just yet though. People are far too quick to call a quits early these days and that’s a mistake. 

Relationships, like all else, just need a little work. That’s actually part of the lasting fun, growing and evolving together and creating a life together as opposed to a couple of months of passionate nonsense with no substance that fades once it just becomes the new reality.

Now, you may be asking yourself how you can go about spicing things up once they’ve seemingly gone stale. The reality is that there are a lot of ways that simply involve creating a true connection and emotional intimacy with your partner, but today, in this article, I’m going to focus on what goes on in the bedroom, because let’s face it, that’s the fun stuff (seriously though, the emotional part is hugely important).

The normal ebb and flow of a lasting relationship is bound to involve some points where unfortunately, physical intimacy is low on your priorities list, and this is true for men and women, though unfortunately this usually happens at opposite times. Stupid biology. 

Sometimes when this happens, you just need to do a little something to rekindle things. This little something can seriously be something as simple as changing up the sleepwear rotation. I’m not saying you need to make sure you sleep in lingerie all of the time, but maybe start with just once per week, and it doesn't even have to be lingerie, just a little something different, away from the routine, that you know your partner will get enjoy. Honestly it sometimes does not take much at all. There are plenty of sexy pajama options that can get things going again for everyone. 

That's officially your homework: if you're currently in a sexual drought, or next time you are in one, pick a single night to switch up the rotation. There’s even a chance that simply the act of changing it will get the excitement going. It doesn't have to be huge, just throw on a special pair of pajamas and see what happens. 

At the end of the day, you’ll feel sexy and better about yourself, and your partner will feel invigorated by it too, and maybe that starts a chain reaction that seeps into the rest of the relationship as well. So go on, give it a try.